Compromised Morality

I believe that the stage during a child's upbringing where parents experience the most conflict is when the child begins to embrace society's defined morals. Our society often adheres to questionable norms and established truths, some of which may contradict the ideal standards of morality. Despite this, people tend to passively accept these norms without questioning their moral implications.

During the process of raising children, parents typically aim to instill ideal moral standards in their child's nature. The child learns these moral values from various sources, and they become ingrained in the core values of their mind. As a pure form of creation, the child instinctively follows their own beliefs.

However, parents may find themselves conflicted when they realize that their child's actions align with morality but may not be practically realistic within societal norms. Despite their belief in understanding the world due to their experiences, parents sometimes encourage their children to adapt to the surrounding culture, even if it means compromising their morals.

Instructed to alter their behavior, children are taught elements of hypocrisy and manipulation to fit into society. This guidance emphasizes the prioritization of societal norms over naturally righteous actions, often labeled as ethics, culture, or a perceived helplessness.

Parents fail to recognize that the child's happiness and personal well-being should take precedence over societal expectations. Encouraging children to follow societal norms sets them up for potential harm, as societal approval can never be gained. If parents guided their children to act based on their true desires, considering others' opinions without letting them affect their well-being, and finding happiness in uncontrollable circumstances, the result could be a genuinely content and righteous individual.

Fundamentally, humans are born with inherent moral values, reflecting God's instinct. Preserving these values and shielding children from society's detrimental influence could lead to the development of better individuals and contribute to a more positive society. This approach might reduce instances of people engaging in wrongdoing out of perceived compulsion, fostering a society where individuals resist harmful actions due to their steadfast moral principles.

In essence, we inadvertently stifle our children's consciences, only to later lament the prevalence of malevolent activities in society.